Exceptional
Character
by Bruce Okkema
As
much as she coaxed Joseph day after day, he did not yield ... Genesis
39:10 JPS
Joseph
will be a powerful figure in biblical history if he lives true to
the drama that accompanies his introduction in Genesis 37. The story
teller begins by emphasizing this young man’s part in a polygamous
family in which there is much tension, and we read of his unfavorable
report about his brothers to his father. Soon our hearts go out to
him as he is mercilessly thrown into a pit and sold into slavery by
his brothers. One comes back to rescue him and finds him gone, then
his brothers lie about what they have done, even reporting to Jacob
that his favored son has been killed. But what happens next in chapter
39 is almost unbelievable, especially for men.
We read,
"The Lord was with Joseph
and he prospered, and he lived in the house of his Egyptian master.
When his master saw that the Lord was with him and that the Lord gave
him success in everything he did, Joseph found favor in this eyes
and became his attendant. Potiphar put him in charge of his household,
and he entrusted to his care everything he owned … now Joseph
was well-built and handsome … and after a while his master’s
wife … said … 'Come to bed with me' … day after
day. (Gen. 39:2-10).”
A glance at artwork from that time period in Egypt
will reveal that royal women were not known for their modesty. And
knowing the power of lust, you might be able to imagine how Potiphar’s
wife may have been dressed as she whispered, “come to bed with
me, I desire you, we are alone, nobody will know …” Aside
from his own natural desires, Joseph would have known that slaves
were commonly used for sexual pleasure, and his master’s wife
was issuing him a command! Any adult will instantly understand the
intensity of this temptation and the ease with which a young man could
have succumbed.
'But
he refused. "With me in charge," he told her, "my master
does not concern himself with anything in the house; everything he
owns he has entrusted to my care. No one is greater in this house
than I am. My master has withheld nothing from me except you, because
you are his wife. How then could I do such a wicked thing and sin
against God?” (Gen. 39:8-9)'
Then the story continues to build until she physically
grabs him and he runs from her, leaving his cloak in her hands.
There is a lot to this story that we are not told,
but reading between the lines, it is likely that Potiphar did not
totally believe his wife’s account. She had softened the accusation
of attempted rape which she had made to the other servants, to one
of “making sport of me” when she told her husband. Also,
Joseph may have had a chance to tell his side of the story even though
it is not recorded. Neither is his reaction recorded in the
account of his brothers throwing him into the pit (Gen. 37), yet later,
in their retelling of that story (Gen. 42:21), we read, “he
pleaded with us”. Potiphar could have certainly executed Joseph,
which would have been the normal punishment for such crimes, but rather
he had him imprisoned. And he knew Joseph’s character, having
trusted him so much as to put him in charge of his entire estate.
His wife's character, as evidenced by her behavior, was questionable.
Hopefully, we will not find ourselves in such an irresistible
situation as was Joseph, but we don’t have to go very far to
see all manner of such temptations or to hear Satan beckoning us.
Bless the Lord for giving Joseph the strength to do the right thing
and then passing on the story! Be encouraged that when we look up,
God will do the same for us.
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